I just read on Examiner.com that a mother has been sentenced to 6 weekends in jail for alienating her children from their father and for falsely reporting sexual abuse by the father. 6 weekends in my opinion is a joke, frankly a false accusation should be felony charge with mandatory jail time, but at least it’s a start.
From the article on examiner.com:
“The crescendo of the plaintiff’s conduct involved accusations of sexual abuse. Plaintiff falsely accused defendant of sexual misconduct in June, 2008, shortly after defendant moved to Huntington and the children’s friends were enjoying play dates at defendant’s home. Plaintiff testified that D. shared that she was uncomfortable when the defendant tickles her, and conceded that she knew there was nothing “sexual” involved. Undaunted by the lack of any genuine concern for D.’s safety, plaintiff pursued a campaign to report the defendant to Child Protective Services. To facilitate this, she spoke with W. M, the psychologist at the school D. attended. Plaintiff also “encouraged” D. to advise Dr. C. (the chidren’s pediatrician) that defendant inappropriately touched her – – but he saw no signs of abuse. Plaintiff also advised Dr. A., Ms. M., Dr. R. (the children’s prior psychologist) and family friends of the allegations and, ultimately, the Suffolk County Department of Social Services opened a file on June 3, 2008, and began an investigation.”
“According to the Case Narrative contained in the New York State Case Registry, a complaint was made that “On a regular basis, father inappropriately fondles 13 year old D.’s breasts. This makes D. feel very uncomfortable. Last Sunday, Father hit D. on the breast for unknown reason… ” When the caseworker and Suffolk County detectives interviewed D. on June 3, 2008, she reported only that her father tickles her on her neck and under her arms, and she categorically denied her father ever fondled her breasts. She admitted that her father was not attempting to make her uncomfortable, but that he still regards her to be a tomboy. The detectives closed their investigation.”
“Thereafter, and significantly, when the CPS caseworker met with plaintiff on August 19, 2008, plaintiff was quick to state that her ex-husband “did it again.” Plaintiff claimed that the defendant hugged D. too hard. According to the caseworker’s notes, the caseworker repeatedly cautioned the plaintiff not to bring the children into her disputes with the defendant. This warning was contained in CPS records.”
“Although unfounded child abuse reports are required to be sealed (see, Social Services Law §422[5]), such reports may be introduced into evidence,”by the subject of the report where such subject… is a plaintiff or petitioner in a civil action or proceeding alleging the false reporting of child abuse or maltreatment” (Social Services Law §422[5][b][1]). Allegations that defendant had injured the child were found to be baseless and, by making such allegations, plaintiff needlessly subjected the child to an investigation by Child Protective Services, placing her own interests above those of the child. This report was not made in “good faith” – - rather, the investigating agency warned the mother not to re-utilize the allegations and her children in her custodial litigation with the defendant.”
Reading this literally makes me sick. What are your thoughts? Add a comment below letting us know what you think.
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hello, i have been up to date with your stories and predicaments. These ppl who make these false allegations are usually parents. The story with my fiancees case is the same.
The girls were mad at him because we didnt have enough money to take them with us, which we usually do because their mother and stepfather, were always drinking, popping pills and gambling. These girls always called in the middle of the night to come get them 13 miles away because of there mothers drinkng. He always went out to get them. Then when this was all coming about the mother was intoxicated when she approached a cop on the side of the road in town, first she stated her daughter ran away and she was at her boyfriends house, but when she realized what she told the cop about her running away she threw in that story her girls were touched. She even said she witnessed one incident. But in court, the prosecutor got that statement thrown out, to save her butt. But at trial she said she never knew of any incidents.
But the kicker is the girls didnt know what was going on till later that night. The cop tried to talk with one of the daughters and she didnt say nothing like she was surprised and said she will come in tomorrow to make a statement. So that gave them a day to figure out the lie.
The next day the mother, one daughter and the other daughter, after they found her, came in, on there arrival, the mother states there was 2 other victims along with the 2 girls. One was a friend of the girls n the other was another cousin. The one daughter told a story, the mother told a story about her witnessing my fiancee touching the non relative, but that story didnt match so, onto the next one, the daughter that ran away, when asked about the abuse, she said WHAT?!? and the cops told her what her mother said and she said i didnt say anything. She didnt make a statement that day, she came in 2 days later to make a statement, and it still didnt match, with what the mother and other daughter was saying.
The friend of the girls, was harassed, by these girls and the mother, because she would not lie, the other cousin which they said this happened to, denied and even told the cop what the girls wanted her to say against my fiancee. This is all hear in the open and our lawyer didnt do squat.I gave them the benefit of the doubt, but once i started hearing when this supposely happened and what they were telling cops, i changed my mind. they lied about me, saying i told them i caught him with a young girl, in my house, which is false. The stated that i shot up drugs in my arms because i have needles at my house. The reason for the needles is because my niece was staying with us and she has type 1 diabetes, she was 14 at the time. Thats why the needles were in my house. They stated all these different girls stayed at my house, which is a lie, They also stated that my fiancee physically harms my oldest son, which is my fiancees stepson, because my son was gone for awhile. They told the cops that my son stole something from my fiancee and he got rid of him thats why my son was not around and why my fiancee went to jail.
My fiancee was in jail for an old fine, and my son was juvenile detention with his gang crap. He was gone for 3 months and then another 3 months and the girls told the cops that my fiancee got rid of him. the girls didnt know what to say in the interviews, they were constantly texting on the phone while she was writing out her statement, the other was being coached by the officers conducting the interview. The girl didnt know what her mother said so she sat there, and the cop said well your mom said this happened and that happened and she agreed. the bad thing about it is he was charged with 10 felonies and convicted of 6 with the girls, the other girls told the truth to the prosecuter what they were tryin to do and repeatedly asked the girls to change there stories, which they did not. The other cousin, she came as our witness for my fiancee and the prosecuter came and said that she cant testify, and that she cant be in the courtroom during trial, because he was gonna use her as a rebuttal witness which she refused, because it was a lie what them girls are doing.
My fiancee was charged with 6 counts, the ones he had dismissed were of the girls who told the story the real story. he is appealing his case and we found alot of stuff they did wrong. they are hiding pages of the prelim hearing, the mothers interview, is all we are waiting on. It has been 6 months and no video, The lawyer we had for trial, he never told the defendent nothin. he didnt do nothing in court, so we have a new one one that teaches about defense in this type of crime. She said we have a very strong case because of what they hid from us. during this time,3 years, the girls came in every little while stating we were harassing them, which the cops investigated and we were never around when these things happened. The cop states in his report, no one home, out of town, because he would talk to our neighbors and see how long we were gone. we had over 12 reports of harassment, which were all lies and he was never charged. Most of them come from the mother,because they wanted him in jail then and now… now he is sitting his time, till appeal goes thru, i am patiently waiting, i studied this case for 2 years, and feel this was brought up from the mother…..everything points to the mother..now the sheriff of the county is having doubts, he has been involved with incidents at there house such as, alcohol overdose, pill overdose, fighting, suicide attempts before the girls said this happened, suicide attempts from the mother, 4 times in 3 yrs, the oldest daughter, 5 times, the other daughter 2 times.
I just want you to hear what we are going through. I havent seen my fiancee in 5 months and the children also have not seen him. we cant see him because of supposely harassment we been doing against them, which is untrue, we have video tape from last week that shows they were trying to get us to do something, they followed us around non stop. But the cops wont do nothing. but i hope your story comes out in the open of how you were falsely accused and convicted…
Wow, crazy story. Thanks so much for sharing yours. I think sometimes people think stories like that in the news article are rare. As yours shows, they aren’t. My story is out in the open due to this blog. Yours is too now since you added a comment.
Good luck, God bless and I hope everything works our for you and your family. Keep us posted and consider joining our forums so you can get input from others going through the same thing.
I think it is dispiccable that parents will stoop to such a level liek that. There are so many cases of real child abuse there is no need to create false cases!
And these false allegations harm the children as well. For years to come if their young enough, they will wonder “Did this really happen?” They are alienated from other family members, lives are destroyed, families crumbled all for an adult agenda that has nothing to do with the truth. Some just want the men out of their lives as well as their childrens and will stop at nothing until it is complete. This is a crime like no other. It affects both sides, the children and the accused and the families as well. For crimes that NEVER happen.
I have a story that happened to me that would shock the hell out of you. Around 2003, my son’s mom had left our son to be baby sat by a neighbor down the street. I believe the following day; we realized he somehow ended up with a bloody butt. I was at a family get together with neighbor friends UP the street telling them about this weird thing (because it is actually not normal to bleed from your butt), and she says to me “well there is only ONE thing that can cause that” and I was like oh, and what’s that? She replies that someone has been having sex with him. I told her she wasn’t a doctor and she doesn’t know that and left. She apparently told the neighbors down the street that had watched my son and I think they developed a form of fear or retaliation. Their daughter used to always come over and just help herself into our home (our deadbolt hole was empty and she would stick her hand in and unlock the door knob) to play with my son. I think her and my son were both around the age of four at that time. One day I’m pulling into my driveway with my son in the passengers seat, and the neighbors little girl walks up to my car and puts her arms up on the window ledge next to my son and says to me “my daddy doesn’t like you.” I was like why. Because you do bad things to little kids. I was like what things? She nods her head down and says Bad things again.
At this point her dad is walking into my yard barefoot to retrieve his little girl, and I’m just so enraged at this point. While the mention of sexual assault wasn’t even mentioned at this point, I could see where it was going. I had my pistol concealed on me and just wanted nothing more then to blow this guys head off. Not because I thought he caused any harm to my son (my son never gave us reason to think that) but rather to instill unproven lies and accusations against me that could ruin my life. The only reason he is still alive today and I’m not doing life in prison is because there was two young children present which prevented me from acting out. When I asked him what his daughter is talking about he wouldn’t answer me. I typed up a letter and tossed it on their porch, (I didn’t want to step foot on there porch with the accusations) basically saying I wasn’t aware of any perceived problems.
They decided to press charges against me and my sons mother claiming that we had been forcing there little girl to have sex with us, in addition to some pretty sick and disgusting things I can’t list on here. I was contacted by local authorities telling me I had to come in to take a polygraph. I jumped at the chance of course. After taking the polygraph the chief of police talked with me in confidence letting me know that these neighbors of mine are convinced that I have done something wrong, but the polygraph shows differently. In addition to this they tested the little girl and also found nothing was wrong. Its apparent they simply want to believe something is wrong, when there isn’t’. The chief told me he even tried to tell them there is nothing wrong and to leave me alone, but they wouldn’t listen. The Chief of police told me it seems I might have to move. That poor little girl has been questioned and probably physically probed because of her parents stupidity. Moving was ok with me because I was in the process of breaking up with my baby’s momma anyhow. The neighbors up the street quickly fitted my baby’s momma with a new boyfriend, which took me 10 years to figure out why this all seemed planned.
I moved and was served papers to appear in court on a restraining order. The neighbors were making vulgar sick accusations, things I wouldn’t think would be allowed in a courtroom. I mentioned that I even took a polygraph and the judge stopped me saying it’s not admissible in court. After horrible horrific statements from the mother, I asked a simple question. If I have done all these horrible things to their little girl, why is she walking up to me in my car without fear? She answered that sexual abuse victims are often attracted to the offender, and the judge stopped her and yelled, YOU DON’T KNOW THAT! Of course the judge would not honor the request and no order was given. They did how ever get one against my ex. In a fit of anger one day she chased the husband down his driveway, and they stuck a restraining order on her. (Stupid but maybe she deserved it)
My baby’s momma is skitzo, she suffers from an acute example of it and is delusional. She also makes pretty good money because she gets native stocks. We moved to WA State in 2000 and she had made $120,000 in that year. It never occurred to me that letting the neighbors UP the street know this, that they would develop ill intentions because of this. I believe they orchestrated all of this merely because they wanted to some how tap into her money. I recall them asking me if she has so much money why I’m leaving her, and I told them she has issues and is abusive. They instantly hooked her up with a cousin of there’s. In the 9 years they have been together he has probably worked a total of 4 months, has a chronic weed smoking, drinking habit that she supports.
It’s become more apparent to me now that her current boyfriend has been leaching off of her for all these years, in addition to her renting out the other side of her duplex to the same family that once lived up the street, and them not paying there rent. I could say my big mouth caused all this but when you own three cars and a duplex, it’s pretty hard to hide.
I’m glad I broke up with her when I did, she is so messed up mentally the state took my son away in 2004 from her and gave me full custody while she has supervised visitation only. The only thing I have against me is that I do actually like younger women. Not to say I like little girls. I prefer to date women between 25 and 35 while I’m 44.