Comments on: The Party – 11/4/2006 – The day it all began http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/the-party/ The story of a Dad falsely accused of a horrible crime. Sun, 25 Jul 2010 23:55:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Mother of a Victim http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/the-party/comment-page-1/#comment-285 Mother of a Victim Mon, 24 May 2010 20:09:53 +0000 http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/?p=12#comment-285 Most of you make me sick. Divorce Tactic??? Get real. It's another excuse from the accused man or womans famliy to protect their feelings and themselfs. Excuses... no matter how many times you tell yourself the story you want to believe does not make it true. People we know and love hide things all the time. Being a mother of a victim was hard for me! I couldn't believe what happened... I couldn't believe that a man I was once married to could do such a horrible thing to our own child. Should I have known? I couldn't believe the way his family turned their backs on the kids. Not one day goes by that I think about his sentence. They could have put him in jail for the rest of his life and it still is not justice to me. Jail for a few years and the kids memories for the rest of their lives? This is a horrible thing to go through for the victims side and I'm sure it is also for the accused side but making excuses for what happened and blaming others is not the way out. Most of you make me sick. Divorce Tactic??? Get real. It’s another excuse from the accused man or womans famliy to protect their feelings and themselfs. Excuses… no matter how many times you tell yourself the story you want to believe does not make it true. People we know and love hide things all the time. Being a mother of a victim was hard for me! I couldn’t believe what happened… I couldn’t believe that a man I was once married to could do such a horrible thing to our own child. Should I have known? I couldn’t believe the way his family turned their backs on the kids. Not one day goes by that I think about his sentence. They could have put him in jail for the rest of his life and it still is not justice to me. Jail for a few years and the kids memories for the rest of their lives? This is a horrible thing to go through for the victims side and I’m sure it is also for the accused side but making excuses for what happened and blaming others is not the way out.

]]> By: Chris http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/the-party/comment-page-1/#comment-277 Chris Sun, 16 May 2010 16:16:47 +0000 http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/?p=12#comment-277 I hate to say this- because I am a woman and have always been a feminist...but women have a tendency to make false allegations. Not all of them, but many women use the legal system to get retrobution or to set someone up...even if there're doing the misdeeds. I have seen women do some pretty nasty things and using the legal system to get revenge is one of them. Sometimes it's just good old fashion paranoia. But the legal system should look at more than the the evidence against the accused. For instance- say you have a domestic violence call and a woman accuses another of assault- the officer responds and sees a red mark on her cheek or other incriminating evidence; should the officer not investigate what might have led to this outcome? Should he/she just assume that the accuser is the victim- based solely on the red cheek and her statement? What if she attempted to or physically assaulted him/her 1st? What if she stalked and terrorized the supposed "offender"? How about doing a little research on the accuser and finding out if they've made these kinds of allegations in the past, and to what extent, and under what circumstances? Or is this called victimizing the victim??? Give me a break! This kind of crap needs to stop! It's a virtual witchhunt...w/ everyone accusing everyone- and the police and legal system are reinforcing the hysteria! The police and legal system is a joke anymore- a bunch of mindless, incompetant morons! I hate to say this- because I am a woman and have always been a feminist…but women have a tendency to make false allegations. Not all of them, but many women use the legal system to get retrobution or to set someone up…even if there’re doing the misdeeds. I have seen women do some pretty nasty things and using the legal system to get revenge is one of them. Sometimes it’s just good old fashion paranoia. But the legal system should look at more than the the evidence against the accused. For instance- say you have a domestic violence call and a woman accuses another of assault- the officer responds and sees a red mark on her cheek or other incriminating evidence; should the officer not investigate what might have led to this outcome? Should he/she just assume that the accuser is the victim- based solely on the red cheek and her statement? What if she attempted to or physically assaulted him/her 1st? What if she stalked and terrorized the supposed “offender”? How about doing a little research on the accuser and finding out if they’ve made these kinds of allegations in the past, and to what extent, and under what circumstances? Or is this called victimizing the victim??? Give me a break! This kind of crap needs to stop! It’s a virtual witchhunt…w/ everyone accusing everyone- and the police and legal system are reinforcing the hysteria! The police and legal system is a joke anymore- a bunch of mindless, incompetant morons!

]]> By: Sarah http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/the-party/comment-page-1/#comment-271 Sarah Tue, 04 May 2010 19:51:10 +0000 http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/?p=12#comment-271 The thing is Dad they are not children now they are in their 40's and were saying that the abuse started when one of them was one years old....How the heck can anyone remember anything that happened at that age.I'm from the UK and I always used to think where there's smoke there's fire and I guess anyone who hasn't been in this situation thinks the same. Which is probably why Juror's look at this in the same way.They are ordinary people who have kids or grandchildren but.....They don,t know the accused. My step dad (I hate calling him that because he has been in our life as a Dad for 25 years) has said if he had pleaded guilty he would of been out in 4 years but as it stands now its 14....He is 62 now!!! It is all going through an appeal before one judge and if the judge see's fit for it to go for a re-trail (based on points of law, like lack of medical evidence and he cant prove where he was on the "days" it happened) It will then go before 5 judges NO JURY!!! As you've probably guessed having a bit of a bad day :) Your story is truly amazing still reading through....Thanks for sharing it's good to know we are not the only ones going through it xxx The thing is Dad they are not children now they are in their 40’s and were saying that the abuse started when one of them was one years old….How the heck can anyone remember anything that happened at that age.I’m from the UK and I always used to think where there’s smoke there’s fire and I guess anyone who hasn’t been in this situation thinks the same.
Which is probably why Juror’s look at this in the same way.They are ordinary people who have kids or grandchildren but…..They don,t know the accused.
My step dad (I hate calling him that because he has been in our life as a Dad for 25 years) has said if he had pleaded guilty he would of been out in 4 years but as it stands now its 14….He is 62 now!!!
It is all going through an appeal before one judge and if the judge see’s fit for it to go for a re-trail (based on points of law, like lack of medical evidence and he cant prove where he was on the “days” it happened) It will then go before 5 judges NO JURY!!!
As you’ve probably guessed having a bit of a bad day :)
Your story is truly amazing still reading through….Thanks for sharing it’s good to know we are not the only ones going through it xxx

]]> By: dad http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/the-party/comment-page-1/#comment-270 dad Tue, 04 May 2010 19:34:49 +0000 http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/?p=12#comment-270 Good example of how jury's tend to believe children. I get beat up on here pretty good for taking a plea. Some people even think that's a sign of guilt. Your step-Dad's situation is a great example of why I chose to take a plea. Had I "fought the law", I could be sitting in jail right now and jail is just part of the problem. Ever heard of felon's trying to get a good job? Next to impossible. Good example of how jury’s tend to believe children. I get beat up on here pretty good for taking a plea. Some people even think that’s a sign of guilt. Your step-Dad’s situation is a great example of why I chose to take a plea. Had I “fought the law”, I could be sitting in jail right now and jail is just part of the problem. Ever heard of felon’s trying to get a good job? Next to impossible.

]]> By: Sarah http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/the-party/comment-page-1/#comment-269 Sarah Tue, 04 May 2010 18:07:55 +0000 http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/?p=12#comment-269 Going through the same thing but it is my step dad who has gone to prison for seven years,because of two of his children (well I say children they are in their 40's now) and his sick ex wife who have never left him or my Mum in peace. My step dad has bought 3 (2 girls 1 boy) of us up since we was about the age of7 11 13 and he has 7 grand daughters,but the jury in their infinite wisdom believed the dark side!He has NEVER touched any of us girls or boys. He never pleaded guilty why should he when he has done nothing wrong....so now all of my family are suffering because of the evil,vindictive people that bought this on him. Going through the same thing but it is my step dad who has gone to prison for seven years,because of two of his children (well I say children they are in their 40’s now) and his sick ex wife who have never left him or my Mum in peace.
My step dad has bought 3 (2 girls 1 boy) of us up since we was about the age of7 11 13 and he has 7 grand daughters,but the jury in their infinite wisdom believed the dark side!He has NEVER touched any of us girls or boys.
He never pleaded guilty why should he when he has done nothing wrong….so now all of my family are suffering because of the evil,vindictive people that bought this on him.

]]> By: Stephanie http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/the-party/comment-page-1/#comment-268 Stephanie Tue, 04 May 2010 17:02:06 +0000 http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/?p=12#comment-268 It's terrible how the LAW which is suposedly made to justify things seems to always do the opposite. This so called justice seems to favor what seems like the innocent and charge after the ones more likely to blame without any critical information or evidence. It's sad to see innocent men go to jail for such indecent people and sometimes the word of a child which can easily be miss guided or corrupted by outside forces. I believe if it wasnt for the broken justice we have now alot less people, inocent people would go to jail for the crimes unrightly accused. It’s terrible how the LAW which is suposedly made to justify things seems to always do the opposite. This so called justice seems to favor what seems like the innocent and charge after the ones more likely to blame without any critical information or evidence. It’s sad to see innocent men go to jail for such indecent people and sometimes the word of a child which can easily be miss guided or corrupted by outside forces. I believe if it wasnt for the broken justice we have now alot less people, inocent people would go to jail for the crimes unrightly accused.

]]> By: Hurting Dad http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/the-party/comment-page-1/#comment-153 Hurting Dad Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:55:41 +0000 http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/?p=12#comment-153 Missing our son I know exactly how you feel. My heart is with you. I am mike at FixMyHome@aol Missing our son

I know exactly how you feel. My heart is with you.
I am mike at FixMyHome@aol

]]> By: Hurting Dad http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/the-party/comment-page-1/#comment-151 Hurting Dad Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:53:49 +0000 http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/?p=12#comment-151 Latonya Just say what you need. I am pretty experienced at this. Shirley Wow..... I can feel your pain. Read the deposition of Dr. Myra Burt at my website. IWantmydad.com Latonya
Just say what you need. I am pretty experienced at this.

Shirley
Wow….. I can feel your pain. Read the deposition of Dr. Myra Burt at my website. IWantmydad.com

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]]> By: Missing our son http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/the-party/comment-page-1/#comment-105 Missing our son Fri, 08 Jan 2010 23:19:53 +0000 http://www.falselyaccuseddad.com/?p=12#comment-105 To Unjustly Served~ I am a mother of a son wrongfully convicted for being falsely accused of harming his daughter. Yes, this is the best way for an ex to get rid of their spouse!!!! No proof, even having eyewitnesses present and exculpatory DNA doesn't change anything. They lock you up and throw away the key!!!!!! I'm sorry you too had to deal with this but know you are not alone. Many, many men are in prison because this is the new divorce tactic! To Unjustly Served~

I am a mother of a son wrongfully convicted for being falsely accused of harming his daughter. Yes, this is the best way for an ex to get rid of their spouse!!!! No proof, even having eyewitnesses present and exculpatory DNA doesn’t change anything. They lock you up and throw away the key!!!!!! I’m sorry you too had to deal with this but know you are not alone. Many, many men are in prison because this is the new divorce tactic!

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